FACT! The youngest child is the favourite, study confirms
Most parents claim they donโt have a favourite child, but itโs always been assumed that itโs the youngest child in the family.
Now a study has proved that this is indeed the case!
Researchers at Brigham Young Universityโs School of Family Life examined more than 300 families to look at the relationship parents had with their children.
They also wanted to determine if there was any favouritism.
The youngest child is the FAVOURITE, confirms study
Parents were asked by experts about how much warmth and conflict they had with each of their children and the children were asked to describe their relationship with their parents.
It seems that the youngest child has the best relationship with his or her parents.
Assistant Professor Alex Jensen, who conducted the study, says that favouritism doesnโt matter, as long as all kids are loved and supported.
โWhen parents are more loving and theyโre more supportive and consistent with all of the kids, the favouritism tends to not matter as much,โ he says.
โSome parents feel like โI need to treat them the same.โย What I would say is โNo you need to treat them fairly, but not equally.โ
โIf you focus on it being okay to treat them differently because theyโre different people and have different needs, thatโs OK.โ
More than half of parents admit to favouring the youngest child
Parenting websitesย Mumsnetย andย Gransnetย conducted a similar study with the same findings.
More than 1,000 parents across the websites were quizzed about their interactions with each of their children.
More than half of the parents quizzed admitted they preferred their youngest kid, 26 per cent said their favourite child was their eldest.
โFavouritism is one of the last taboos and can provoke a lot of guilt, so itโs important to say that feeling a great affinity for a particularly child โ often, whichever one is willing to put their shoes on โ is fairly common, and doesnโt have to be disastrous,โย says Justine Roberts, founder ofย Gransnet.
โThe distilled Mumsnet wisdom on this issue is that lots of parents like their children differently: the crucial thing is to love them all wholly.โ
However, another study by the University of California found that parents favour their first born.
It seems parents favour each of their kids for different reasons and in their own individual way.
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