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FACT! The youngest child is the favourite, study confirms

Most parents claim they donโ€™t have a favourite child, but itโ€™s always been assumed that itโ€™s the youngest child in the family.

Now a study has proved that this is indeed the case!

Researchers at Brigham Young Universityโ€™s School of Family Life examined more than 300 families to look at the relationship parents had with their children.

They also wanted to determine if there was any favouritism.

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The youngest child is the FAVOURITE, confirms study

Parents were asked by experts about how much warmth and conflict they had with each of their children and the children were asked to describe their relationship with their parents.

It seems that the youngest child has the best relationship with his or her parents.

Assistant Professor Alex Jensen, who conducted the study, says that favouritism doesnโ€™t matter, as long as all kids are loved and supported.

โ€œWhen parents are more loving and theyโ€™re more supportive and consistent with all of the kids, the favouritism tends to not matter as much,โ€ he says.

โ€œSome parents feel like โ€˜I need to treat them the same.โ€™ย What I would say is โ€˜No you need to treat them fairly, but not equally.โ€™

โ€œIf you focus on it being okay to treat them differently because theyโ€™re different people and have different needs, thatโ€™s OK.โ€

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More than half of parents admit to favouring the youngest child

Parenting websitesย Mumsnetย andย Gransnetย conducted a similar study with the same findings.

More than 1,000 parents across the websites were quizzed about their interactions with each of their children.

More than half of the parents quizzed admitted they preferred their youngest kid, 26 per cent said their favourite child was their eldest.

โ€œFavouritism is one of the last taboos and can provoke a lot of guilt, so itโ€™s important to say that feeling a great affinity for a particularly child โ€“ often, whichever one is willing to put their shoes on โ€“ is fairly common, and doesnโ€™t have to be disastrous,โ€ย says Justine Roberts, founder ofย Gransnet.

โ€œThe distilled Mumsnet wisdom on this issue is that lots of parents like their children differently: the crucial thing is to love them all wholly.โ€

However, another study by the University of California found that parents favour their first born.

It seems parents favour each of their kids for different reasons and in their own individual way.

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